Central Brain
In
this, hypothalamus and pituitary gland and limbic system are involved. This
controls food habits, thirst, and the temperature of our body.
Now if you and I want to control ourselves we can
control by changing our physiology. A minor change in our physiology can
produce unbelievable results. If you are tilted towards left, generally you are
bound to think about the past. What internal communication we give will be with
reference to the past—people in the past, context of the past, situation of the
past—everything will be of the past.
Now if you change that posture and tilt towards the
right, everything including the eyeball, then you will think about the future.
You will refer to the future context, future picture, and future
situation—everything in future. Now if you sit down straight on your back,
then
your central cord is in standing position. All chakras will be in action
and will be alert. This is the reason why most of the yogasanas are done
in a straight posture. It provides coolness and calmness. Again, our right nose
takes positive or fire energy and similarly left nose cools the energy.
Therefore, in case you sleep on your left side, you take in positive energy,
which helps you in digestion. In “Shiva Sutra”, a Hindu epic, Lord Shiva is
called “Ardhnareshwar” which means half male and half female—the left part is
female and right part is male. Generally this is the reason why females remain
in the past. If a man and a woman go to a restaurant to have dinner, even after
having left the restaurant, the woman will keep on talking about the food,
about its ambience, whether it was good or too good. Here, I say in my
seminars, your wife might fight over petty issues but she will be like a rock
when a big problem comes. Generally, men are right-oriented and women are
left-oriented. However, if your son is too girlish, then ask him to play the
game such as Judo, Taekwondo, etc. and in case he is too aggressive, ask him to
learn gardening and try to involve him in household chores.
The famous philosopher Simone de Beauvoir said that
females are not born females. They are made females. Mother, family, and
society start teaching them what to do and what not to do.
Reprogramming
the Brain
The
use of brain entirely depends upon an individual. If you change the picture, if
you change the sound, if you change the feeling, then the meaning and context
of an event will be changed. Now the question is, can we re-programme our
brain? Yes, we can. We can, by disturbing
as
what is experienced in an actual sexual intercourse. In one of my seminars, one
gentleman came into my hotel room. It was 12 o’clock in the night. He said,
“Please save me. I enjoy masturbation more than the real intercourse.” Look,
imagined reality is more powerful than reality itself. It is all about how we
use our brain.
In
case you want to change your past patterns then simply follow the following
commands.
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Take
a picture of what you want to be.
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Make
the picture bigger and bigger.
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Now colour the picture with your favourite colours.
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Get
yourself associated.
(Associated
means you are acting as a character there)
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Now
create sound in that picture.
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it be the sound which you love to hear, sound and tempo you
like from your heart.
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Now
bring this closer to your eyes.
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Through
your eyes feel as it has come closer.
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Now see, listen, and feel simultaneously intensively.
In case anybody does this in an intense state, then
the imagined behaviour will replace the real behaviour. Remember, if you tell
your child that he is doing well in his studies, the child starts doing well
and if you keep encouraging your child like this consistently, then he starts
doing extremely well in his studies. In case parents start telling the child
that he is not doing well repeatedly so as to scare the child, then in reality
the parents do not notice but the child starts imagining that he is not doing
well and hence imagination replaces the reality. Let me give you and example.
Once I finished my firewalk seminar at 12 o’clock in the night. When I entered
my hotel suite in resort Chokhi Dhani at Jaipur, I saw a participant waiting
for me. She was crying. I asked her the reason for crying. She explained,
“Everything is all right, but I cannot have sex with my husband.” They had been
married for a year. They tried having sex many times but they could not do it.
I suddenly recalled the case study of Milton Ericsson, in which the female was
scared of sex. The reason of the fear was that when she was eight year old,
somebody from the family had raped her. That pain was anchored in her mind,
body, and soul. Subsequently, she developed a phobia. That phobia was creating
problem in imagination and that imagination had become reality. My counselling
worked like magic on her. Remember, past is not the same as the future. That
participant was imagining pain. If you do anything consistently, even in
imagination, then it starts looking as reality. It is all in the mind. Mind
always gives you what you dream of. In order to activate your mind, choose
affirmative words.
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it will happen. If a wife doubts her
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husband and always imagines him
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with somebody else, then there
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a possibility that
after some
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this might become reality
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because she had asked the cosmos for the
same thing. So it all depends upon how you demand your command. Similarly, if
you have a particular taste before you actually eat the thing with that taste,
you start experiencing it. Once I had a presentation in Kolkata. I had taken my
family along. Since I was brought up in Kolkata, I distinctly remembered a
particular taste of Jaiswal puri. As soon as I landed at the airport, I
took my family to the restaurant where I used to go 10 years earlier. I started
matching the old taste of the puri with the present. Again, in the same
trip, I had used my technique to see the pictures. Once when I was leaving for
Kolkata, Shri Amrendra Mahapatra, Director of MMTC had said, “You are young,
the country needs you.” He advised me to go and give presentation to his
managers. His statement was there in my mind. When I went to give the
presentation there, I saw that I had a competitor from a big, giant training
company. I used my visualisation process for my presentation. How was my
presentation? Just after four days, I got a call from the Director Personnel,
D. Satpati, asking me to come and fix a date for giving the training at
Hindustan Copper. Visualisation process is nothing but a technique to use the
brain systematically. We have heard people say, “Think positive, think
positive”, but the biggest question
is “How?” In my seminars my entire focus
is on “how”. Our destination is always governed by the process through which we
use our brain.
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In late 1970s, Narayana Murthy
was
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leading a
division for Patni Computers
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in Bombay. In
1981, one of the brothers
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of Patni
treated Mr Narayana Murthy
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roughly.
Narayana Murthy decided to
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leave Patni
Computers. When he left,
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six other
members of the company also
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left. Out of
them, one gentleman was
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Mr Arora. For Mr Murthy, respect,
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value, process
was more important.
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The six
of them formed
a company
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by the name of
Infosys. The company
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did not do
well till the liberalisation of
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business in
India. Mr Arora took the
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other side of
the picture. His acuity
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was used in
the other direction and it
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is needless to
say that he missed the boat.
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