MASTER THE SCIENCE OF PHYSIOLOGY

Sometimes when people meet or depart, they cry and hug each other and thereby show their love for each other. In India, long ago, in villages especially, women used to hug and cry loudly whenever they would meet or  depart.  Actually,  it  was  a  mode  of  physiological communication, a communication which makes rapport on a subconscious level. This was the technique to resolve any kind of differences with each other. But the so-called modern society of India has left this scientific technique. Perhaps, this is the reason why the percentage of people suffering from depression has gone so high. This process connects people emotionally. Acceptance always gives solutions. In case your state matches with the state of the other person, you immediately feel comfortable. It sounds funny, but it really works. In case you go to a party and you find somebody interesting and you feel like talking to that person, at that time check yourself. Your physiology must match with his. What happens when you see yourself in the mirror? You find yourself. Like this in case, if you mirror somebody tactfully, then you meet the soul of that person. As he loves his soul, he starts liking you also. In case you want to observe the magic of state matching, then you should go somewhere where lovers sit. Watch them very carefully. Watch their physiology. Watch the way the movement of their heads match, the way they look into each other’s eyes. Watch 

the way their legs move.

In case there is no congruency then there will be frustration and irritation. One of my friends, Shrinivas, was in the Indian Army. He once said, “Do you know why today’s generation is more smart?” I said, “No,

you tell me.” His answer was funny and all nonsense, but now I connect with the same. He said that couple make sex with open eyes, not with close eyes, they call sex as love making rather than having sex. When young couples spend more time with each other, they talk about their day at their work place and in general also share their problems. Loving and caring for each other is far more important. These days even women have become open about their sex life.Talking about sex is no longer considered a taboo. Also, the quality of sex life of parents directly influences the quality of life of the children. Once I had a presentation in Bhubaneshwar, Orissa, for NALCO. One of my friends, who hails from Cuttack, suggested me to visit the Konark Sun Temple. So I went to the Konark temple and was surprised to see our ancient history. It was a thrilling example of matching and mismatching instances. Through matching and mismatching technique, the king had tried to change the culture of depression that existed at that time. The sculptures and figurines over there, especially of Maenka and Vishwamitra, were very erotic. I asked the guide who had accompanied me why King Singh Dev made the erotic sculptures. He replied very politely and scientifically as if he was the brand ambassadorof Konark temple. He said that it was a desired state for awaking an individual from a depressed state. After the war of Kalinga, people had lost interest in sex and life. Most of the people were embracing Buddhism, including Ashoka and his children. The next generation was in danger. The king wanted to change the state of the individuals and truly he wanted to change the state of the whole society.

I was amazed by the understanding of the physiology and psychology by the great king. The importance of Konark for changing the frame of mind of the young people was amazing. I suggest everybody should go to Konark and watch it very carefully through the vision of King Singh Dev. The thought behind making the Konark temple was amazing.

The state and rapport have a crucial relationship. Watch a dog sitting in a street. When another dog will come from other side and will start barking, the dog sitting will remain calm, but the standing dog will continue to bark. The dog who is sitting will produce feeble and weak sounds. But then it will get up and will bark with the same intensity. And after some time, both will turn in the opposite direction and leave.

I will share one incident which happened in New Delhi. I was struggling for survival. I was staying in a

terrace room (10×10 feet). One day, from the terrace I saw a couple fighting with each other. They were physically hitting each other also. I found that they were doctors and both of them were gold medallists. After the fight, what I saw was unbelievable. The woman went to the kitchen and started cooking and later on both of them had food together. In reality, their physiology matched and collapsed at the same time and their frustration went off. Therefore, I always suggest that a couple should have a healthy sex life, it makes their physiological state match.