Right hand index finger—

             

Now concentrate on the index finger and try to understand all generalizations that you make about groups and society. You should always ask in a specific manner. Never blame the entire group. Choose one which is responsible
for that. Whenever any question comes that they do not understand, then immediately ask, “Who among them?” If you feel that they are not going to give you a fair chance, then ask yourself who is not going to give you the fair chance. Exactly who the person is, who specifically are they? Again, if you see that your idea cannot work, then immediately ask which one of your ideas may not work. Again, if you hear that your plans cannot be executed, then ask a simple question, “Which plan is not working?” In my seminars I come across people who say that their family members do not understand them at all. I suggest to them to ask simple questions as to who among their family does not understand them.The bottom line is that you should not enhance your

problem. Look at the problem specifically and stay focused.

                            

                                                                                                                 to be continued.............