Thursday, August 22, 2013

Right hand ring finger

Right hand ring finger






Now let us concentrate on the ring finger of the right hand, 100% denied. If anybody denies 100%, then do not ask why, as even a thief or a criminal or any antisocial element has a 100% valid reason for doing a crime. Even in hypnosis, we never ask the question “Why?” We always ask them what will be the result in case you do not take that action. I ask in my seminars what will happen if you do not love your wife. Of course I get theanswer, “If I do not love my wife then somebody else will do so.”In case you are not willing to work, then ask yourself what will be the result if you do not work. The picture of the consequences will force you to work, or the picture of the result will force you to take a decision. Again, needless to say, this will prepare you to face the result.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

communication

                communication






Right hand little finger—Let us position 100% irrelevant facts on the little finger of the right hand. These are those facts that do not exist in reality, but we have accepted them as a matter of fact and our life is governed by them. It means we are governed by our self created world of limitations and constraints. These limitations stop us from moving forward and, furthermore, sabotage our success. Now whenever a situation comes, then concentrate it on the little finger of your left hand. If your perception is not filtered properly, then it will not allow you to move forward, rather it will create an avenue to move away. Unless we stop generalising, deleting, and distorting the meaning of an event, any happening won’t be providing a new possibility. You can refer to the following-
100% bluff—Sometimes we say that kids today have no manners. By making this statement, we create an emotion which is negative. With the sound of this statement, our physiology goes down. Our behaviour gets affected. At this moment, ask yourself by raising little finger of left hand—is it really 100%? An answer from your subconscious will come, i.e., “No”. It is not 100%, rather we have made it 100% as a result of our own perceptions.Suppose you are moving in your car and suddenly a rickshaw puller comes in front. Within a fraction of moment you exclaim, “You all Biharis have no sense.” Again you say, “Oh Bihari get lost.” Here you are creating an identity about the people of Bihar. You are creating a bluff as if every person from Bihar is a rickshaw puller. It is not at all the reality. Do you think it is reality? No. Now next time, in case event. Map is not the territory. Even behaviour of a single person changes with the passage of time. As we know there is an old saying “time and tide changes every moment”.Similarly, you may believe that all secretaries have affairs with their bosses or seniors. So whichever office you go to, you will assume that there also secretaries and their bosses are having affairs. You will start matching their relationship wherever you go. You will focus on their age, on their looks and so on. You will forget your basic job for which you went there. Your attention will be diverted
to some other direction which is, of course, not relevant to you.you go to meet an IAS officer and you find he is from Bihar, it is needless to say that you will not be able to develop a positive rapport with him. Poor image about Biharis will not allow youto be natural and your communication process will be incomplete. Now concentrate on the little finger of your left hand and ask yourself, “Are all Biharis rickshaw pullers?” You will get the answer from your subconscious mind. “No. This is not the reality.” Remember, every event is a single Again, many women say, “All men are bastard.” In my seminar, I asked a girl what her idea about her father was. She could not say anything. At this point of time, you ask the little finger of your left hand is it really 100% true, you will get the answer, “No”. In fact, you are making a lie or simply perception to 100% truth. And you will
notice that your emotions are not in control.You suffer from pain, and you make your assumptions in poor state, because of your own belief system. I can
bet it never exists in reality. If you make full truth from half truth or no truth, you start believing your doubt and doubting your belief. This kills your way of life and shapes your behaviour that stops you from taking actions. Again, some bosses say that their subordinates never work. They should ask themselves, “Really?” The answer of this question will be “No.” By doing this, they will feel ecstatic. And they will realise that not all subordinates are lazy, rather most of them work hard and are responsible for making them the boss. Most people say that all politicians
are useless. Remember this will not allow you to grow and
respect your country. I found in India that most people hate politicians but they always talk about politics.We know about the behaviour of a person in a particular context and we judge him from that instance. Remember, a person’s behaviour is contextual and it changes as the context changes.





Tuesday, August 20, 2013

FILTER YOUR FILTERS

FILTER YOUR FILTERS 




Many a times our self condemnation stops us from taking actions. Sometimes our technique of asking questions creates hindrances in our life. We all know that the quality of life is nothing but the quality of questions that we ask to ourselves and others. The message of communication should teach us how to communicate with others. If you and I want to communicate internally with a positive frame of mind, then we must know the technique of filtering our negative perceptions. Then only can we
communicate with ourselves. We know that we need to communicate with ourselves first and then we communicate with the world


Sunday, August 18, 2013

Fatigue is a state of mind

                                    Fatigue is a state of mind





According to Shiv Sutra our brain is divided into two parts, right and left. The right part constructs and left part maintains. Right brain imagines and left brain provides reference points. Reference is like a support system. Similarly, moving the eyes in the right direction focus something which does not exist and moving them towards the left shifts our focus to something which does exist. The communication system of Ratan Tata is clear. He generally looks ahead with his eyes towards the right direction. Look at him, he looks pretty young. He does not have time to think about anything which is not productive. Ratan Tata is also known for his vision. We
must know how to change ourself with experiences and
perceptions for breaking our limiting behaviour.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Let’s Understand Our Communication Patterns and Nervous System Scientifically

Let’s Understand Our Communication

Patterns and Nervous System Scientifically

 

Muscles
Our bones and joints are covered with muscles. Muscles form 50% of our body weight and collectively. Muscles are of two work types:
•Voluntary
• Non-voluntary
(i)                 The voluntary muscles move as per our desires and our commands. They wait for commands from the nervous system. These muscles are found in hands, legs, stomach, head, mouth, cheeks, etc.
(ii)              Non-voluntary muscles are found in eye balls,
     
pupils, blood veins, food pipe and heart.
We will discuss about non-voluntary muscles in detail  in the chapter Catch the Liars”.
Our eye has a retina. The retina is like a reel on which
the picture is taken. The lens in the eyes takes the picture.
This picture is always opposite. After the picture has been
taken, it is the job of the nervous system to develop this
picture and give meaning to it. This is the place where
we can change the meaning and frame according to our
desire. It is true that most of the people limit themselves
by generalising the event, sometimes they never allow
lenses to take the picture, they distort the meaning, and
finally they delete it from the reel. By doing this, they
reject an opportunity.
In the above generalisation, distortion, and deletion are done on the basis of the filters that we create in our nervous system. These filters are our own language, our own sounds, our own past experiences, and our own perceptions about events and happenings, our past belief about the pattern of happenings, and our past attitudes about events.
An event has no meaning except the meaning we give
to it. If we use our filters in a better way, then we can reach
the zenith without any doubt. In fact, our filters create the
internal presentation of the event and hence our state is
created, subsequently physiology takes place. Our world is
framed and then our internal and external world is created.
This world helps us create our behaviour.
In our life we can do everything if we follow the scientific pattern of thinking and doing. We must know how to use our brain cells. We don’t get tired because we are actually tired but because of our pattern of thinking. It is because of the pattern of filters that we use.

The pattern of the state makes the pattern of the world. And subsequently the pattern of the world creates our behaviour.Hope is the first thing to take some sort of action I do my corporate programmes for 14 to 15 hours continuously and nobody gets tired. In one of my open
house programme “Discover the Power Within” at Hotel Taj
Mansingh, New Delhi, a very enthusiastic participant came up to me the next day and said, “I danced the whole day.
I attended the whole programme. I did firewalk almost
18 feet long and then went to office in the night for work after 15 hours of programme.” He went back home and the next day he came on time and rocked the seminar with a lot of ecstasy and playfulness again

Thursday, August 15, 2013

KNOW YOUR MIND


KNOW YOUR MIND 


Neuro Communication Model

Value is not intrinsic; it is not in things. It is within us; it is the way in which man reacts to the conditions of his environment.Ludwig von Mises

In this chapter I will explain: How does our nervous system work? How are the nerves esponsible for our behaviour? How is our behaviour shaped as per the meaning that we give to an event? An event has no meaning except the meaning that we give to it.By changing the picture of the event, by changing the sound of the event, by changing the feeling of the event we can change the entire meaning of the event. Framing of an event means we provide a guide to the event, it provides a limit. Whatever we see, feel, and hear is anchored in our mind and body. Whenever we wish to see, listen, and feel to change our old patterns we can always get the new patterns. It would be very easy in case you are in a peak state. For example, if you met with an accident and you narrowly escaped, you will always remember that spot whenever you pass through that site. It will get anchored in your mind, body, and emotions very intensively.
 Our entire


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Make Life Purposeful

Make Life Purposeful

Ask yourself some quality questions for shaping your destiny. It is the quality of the internal communication that decides the external destination. Every individual can become anything that he desires to be, but for that he has to ask the following quality questions to himself consistently.Who am I? • Where am I? • Why am I here? • What do I do? • How do I do? • What are the ways? • Why do I do this in this particular way as I am doing now? • What is my mission, vision, objective, and goal? • What am I doing for reaching there?Let’s not forget that, with all due respect to each of our dreams and desires, we should work towards the betterment of our society and the progress of our country. At any cost we should not do anything against the organisation, corporation, and country from where we have earned our identity. We all know that Vibhishana did everything for Rama but nobody today names their son Vibhishana because his work was against his own organisation. Even though his cause was wider but history could not forgive him. So, if you work against your organisation, then nobody will respect you in the true sense. You will never receive any respect from your contemporaries.