Right hand middle finger
Now let us move the middle
finger of the right hand. Whenever you tell yourself to do
something then ask yourself, “When? How? Where?” This
will provide you direction, pace, extent, and destination.
Brain does not understand unless we make a specific
command. Unless it is clear, brain will not consider it.
So whenever you feel depressed, ask yourself why you
feel depressed. In my seminars, especially in BPOs, I
always ask, “How do you get depressed?” The answer I
get is, “Pressure”. I simply ask, “Have you seen the life of
a student of class 3 or 4? They too have a lot of pressure,
such as peer pressure, pressure of the teachers, parents’
finger of the right hand. Whenever you tell yourself to do
something then ask yourself, “When? How? Where?” This
will provide you direction, pace, extent, and destination.
Brain does not understand unless we make a specific
command. Unless it is clear, brain will not consider it.
So whenever you feel depressed, ask yourself why you
feel depressed. In my seminars, especially in BPOs, I
always ask, “How do you get depressed?” The answer I
get is, “Pressure”. I simply ask, “Have you seen the life of
a student of class 3 or 4? They too have a lot of pressure,
such as peer pressure, pressure of the teachers, parents’
expectations, etc. Then they have fear of not
performing,
fear of rejection from siblings, fear of being insulted in the
fear of rejection from siblings, fear of being insulted in the
society by the teachers,
parents, and friends. They have
to manage so many things and so many persons at the
same time. It is all about how you limit yourself. It is how
you create avenues for yourself to be depressed. In BPOs
especially, “stressed up” has become a fancy word. People
love to be called “stressed up”. Once I was conducting
a seminar for Tech Mahindra company and it was a
challenge to convince very senior level people that all
stress in our lives is the result of our false assumptions. We
have developed the culture of stress. In this situation, just
ask yourself how you have become stressed up. You will
find a particular pattern in your behaviour like shoulder
down, eyes down, etc. Again if you ask yourself that you want to take a new
project, then immediately ask, “How? When? Where?”
This will provoke you to take massive actions for your
project which will enhance your thinking and provide
an opportunity to excel. Mere thinking and dreaming
cannot shape your destiny and cannot do anything for
you. Success is always buried next to frustration. The
fire resembles the problem: the problem which might kill
persons, the problem which can physically harm. If you
want to improve your designation, visualise that you have
attained that designation by taking your eye in the right
direction.
to manage so many things and so many persons at the
same time. It is all about how you limit yourself. It is how
you create avenues for yourself to be depressed. In BPOs
especially, “stressed up” has become a fancy word. People
love to be called “stressed up”. Once I was conducting
a seminar for Tech Mahindra company and it was a
challenge to convince very senior level people that all
stress in our lives is the result of our false assumptions. We
have developed the culture of stress. In this situation, just
ask yourself how you have become stressed up. You will
find a particular pattern in your behaviour like shoulder
down, eyes down, etc. Again if you ask yourself that you want to take a new
project, then immediately ask, “How? When? Where?”
This will provoke you to take massive actions for your
project which will enhance your thinking and provide
an opportunity to excel. Mere thinking and dreaming
cannot shape your destiny and cannot do anything for
you. Success is always buried next to frustration. The
fire resembles the problem: the problem which might kill
persons, the problem which can physically harm. If you
want to improve your designation, visualise that you have
attained that designation by taking your eye in the right
direction.
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