Content Reframing

  Content Reframing

In a situation, just change the meaning and impact of the happening. Look for opportunity in the situation, instead of loss. Because of this, the negative energy will
be converted into positive energy. Emotions will go into a positive frame of mind. If your boss says, “You are an idiot”, then it hurts you. Immediately change the context and think that your boss said it out of love. You know it very well how we feel when our sweetheart calls us an idiot. Life is all about reframing. There was a drunkard, whose girlfriend asked, “Why did you drink yesterday?” He replied, “There are only two reasons to drink. Either you are happy or sad. He said he had both the reasons. Happy because he had met his sweetheart and sad because why did he not meet her till then.” But in the army, when commander commands, then he does not say move back, rather he says that let us attack the opposite side.

We have to change the way we see the world, listen to the world, and feel the world. And because of this, our representational system is changed and of course subsequently our internal communication is also changed and at the same time our behaviour is totally changed. You can change any experience. You can change any happening. You can change any behaviour, you can control your own brain. You can produce the desired
results. Now please reframe the following experiences:

1-“My boss knows nothing—I can do better and can be the boss very soon.” Otherwise, you can always cry that boss is not good. When Rockefeller asked for a hike in his salary, his boss refused. He reframed this situation, “If I can work for him to make him a boss, why can’t I work for myself to be the boss.” He left the job and became a businessman. Many people complain about the company they work for and their boss but still continue working there.

2- Unfortunately, tax liability has become huge.Reframe this as: You have such a great income that you have a higher tax liability.

3- You have no money to live lavishly. Reframe this as: You have every reason to work and nothing to lose. Let’s refer to a simple point—a gentleman went to a priest and said that he had a problem. The priest said, “Give me 51,000 rupees and I will pray for you and perform a ritual.” The gentleman said he had no money. Then the priest asked, “Give me 11,000 rupees” Again he refused. Then the priest asked for 51 Rupees. Again he refused. Finally, the priest said “What are you worried for? God cannot destroy anything of yours. You have got nothing to lose. “ Reframing is the way to put meaning to events. It is the most effective communication technique, tool, and philosophy. We can create a highway or we can create a blockage. It all depends on the way we reframe things. All successful people, like politicians, businessmen, teachers, lawyers, chartered accountants, cost accountants, etc. are big reframers. Generally somebody does reframing for us and then we follow the path and cry. The entire media, advertising, and the PR industry does nothing but reframe all the happenings. eframing changes everything from its own paradigm. Laloo Yadav, Manmohan Singh, L. K.
Advani, etc. all reframed political slogans such as “India Shining”.By doing this, you can come to a conclusion about what should you do. You will take up the project with interest rather than frustration. You will neither spoil your personal life nor professional. You can apply this to any situation. Suppose you are not able to communicate with somebody who is very senior to you. Or you don’t talk to any girl on the pretext that they are arrogant or probably they may refuse you. That feeling of rejection is always there. With reframing you can eliminate all your fears. If your boss becomes unreasonable for a task given to you, instead of cursing him,