Techniques to Eliminate Phobias

1. Develop the alternative demand-oriented perspective

We should always take that word which has a meaning for the buyer. Instead of knowing the product, we should know the value and vision of the product. Eastman Kodak always says, “We preserve beautiful memories.” Revlon is a cosmetics manufacturing company, but they reframe “We are Hope in a Drug Store”.

2. Know exactly what you want

While reframing, we should be very specific. What is our deepest desire and why we must do it? According to ourvision, we go ahead for context reframing. But, destination will only make pathways. In ancient history, the son of a king called Siddhartha visualised his vision above death and sufferings from illness. Then he got the

power to leave his kingdom and subsequently he became the great sage Gautama Buddha. He touched and moved the life of thousands of people in India, China, Burma, Sri Lanka, Tibet, etc. He reframed that the secret of a happy life is not expecting anything from anyone.

3. What pattern you need to change

Focus on the pattern needs to be left and now create an empowering belief to enjoy the changing pattern. This cannot be achieved by one time thought, rather you have to practise it again and again.

4. Condition yourself

To reap the benefits, you and I have to practise it again and again. Then only it will be conditioned. Brain never understands any command unless it is experienced. In my firewalk, I always invest time to condition my participants. Once the masses are conditioned, brain takes action. I told them that the firewalk is a metaphor to their changed physiology. It breaks mental impossibility and will make you experience the fear. The only way to overcome fear is to experience it. That is exactly what firewalk does. Firewalk conditions the state and behaviour which subsequently produces results inspite of terrible fear. Youshould challenge fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear ofnot being good enough, fear of losing positions, fear of not being loved enough, etc. You should break the self-limiting belief. I believe that you can be anything what you wish, such as a businessman, millionaire, etc.

Overcome any kind of unrealistic relationship, which has got no existence today such as a broken relationship. We all had some of our unpleasant experiences in the past and the impact of that past limits us from living a great and playful life.

I condition through firewalk to change the internal representation about any event through internal communication. We all know that even in Mahabharata, Lord Krishna had asked Yudhishtra to reframe the situation of killing Ashwathama, the elephant, for getting an opportunity to kill the great Dronacharya.